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11 Steps To Stop Being Jealous In Relationships

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Jealousy often stems from deep-seated insecurities or past traumas. Delving into its origins can help in addressing the core issues, setting the foundation for a more secure relationship.

Understanding the Root

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Honest communication is the cornerstone of any relationship.  By expressing your feelings and concerns, you can build understanding and seek solutions together, rather than harboring unspoken resentments.

Open Up About Your Feelings

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Jealousy can sometimes reflect low self-esteem. Engaging in self-improvement activities or seeking therapy can help reinforce your sense of self-worth, reducing the need for external validation.

Strengthen Self-worth

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Trust is the antidote to jealousy. Engaging in trust-building activities as a couple, like sharing secrets or setting challenges, can solidify your bond and dispel doubts.

Trust Building Exercises

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Comparing your relationship or your partner to others is a slippery slope. Remember, every relationship is unique. Focus on your journey and the moments that make your bond special.

Avoid Comparison

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Both partners should be clear about what actions or behaviors might trigger feelings of jealousy. Establishing clear boundaries ensures that both parties are on the same page, minimizing potential pitfalls.

Set Clear Boundaries

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Encourage individuality and personal growth in the relationship. By having separate hobbies or spending time apart, you'll learn to value each other more and curb undue possessiveness.

Embrace Independence

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Sometimes, discussing your feelings with a trusted friend or a counselor can offer valuable insights. They can provide an objective viewpoint, helping you see things from a fresh perspective.

Seek External Perspectives

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Holding regular "relationship audits" where both partners discuss their feelings, concerns, and happiness levels can preempt feelings of jealousy. It creates a safe space for open dialogue and growth.

Regular Relationship Check-ins

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